{"id":1856,"date":"2011-05-27T23:49:38","date_gmt":"2011-05-27T23:49:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/pjhmail.wordpress.com\/?p=1856"},"modified":"2011-05-27T23:49:38","modified_gmt":"2011-05-27T23:49:38","slug":"tfe-comforting-counsel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pastorjohnshouse.com\/mailbag\/1856\/tfe-comforting-counsel\/","title":{"rendered":"TFE &#8211; comforting counsel"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#0000ff;\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.goingtojesus.com\/site\/php\/thoughts.php?tname=tfeintro\"><span style=\"color:#0000ff;\">http:\/\/www.goingtojesus.com\/site\/php\/thoughts.php?tname=tfeintro<\/span><\/a><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">I thank God for &#8220;Thoughts for the Day&#8221; such as this one, below. John,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> your gentle and wise counsel resonates so deeply in this. I cherish<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> this advice. It lifts BURDENS from my soul when you explain it in<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> this way&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Brad C<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> =============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Thought for the Evening<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">5-26<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">THE BURDEN OF THE LORD<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">An inquiry from a young sister in the Lord<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">Hey Pastor John,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">The relationship between my sister and me is stressed. There is<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> unspoken tension between us which stems from our different beliefs.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> Whenever Jesus comes up, he is discussed only briefly, which should<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> not be. I want to share so many experiences with her, but I can&#8217;t<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> because I know she won&#8217;t understand. When I do tell her something, I<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> get the same feeling as when I try to tell my mother a testimony. It<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> robs my joy. So I try not to talk to her about Jesus at all. It hurts.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">=============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color:#000080;\">I know it hurts, and that is part of what &#8220;bearing your cross&#8221; means.<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> That pain is also part of your &#8220;being crucified with Christ&#8221;. It is<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> also part of what is meant by the phrase &#8220;bearing the burden of the<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> Lord&#8221; for his people. So, you may be both humbled by and thankful for<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> that pain because in reality, it is not your hurt; it is Christ&#8217;s, and<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> he is letting you feel it. If you were still in sin, you would know<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> nothing about it.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color:#000080;\">There are times when the Spirit tells us just to be quiet; however, if<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> the Spirit tells you to speak, but you do not because you dread a<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> person&#8217;s negative reaction, you are failing to do the will of God.<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> Don&#8217;t allow a dread of people&#8217;s bad reaction to your testimony<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> determine what you do. You must be led by the Spirit. I have seen<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> people fail to do what is right because of dread of people&#8217;s reaction<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> many times, and have probably done my share of it myself. We have to<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> get past that if we are ever to be happy in Jesus.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">=============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">After leaving her house the other day, I was so angry. I was just<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> disturbed. This is the first time I have felt real anger for<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> Christianity. I understood the harm it does to the children of God,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> but I am experiencing firsthand what I knew to be true . . . if that<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> makes any sense.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">=============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color:#000080;\">Of course it does. It&#8217;s the only thing that does make any sense.<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">=============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">It&#8217;s like I knew how sad it was, but it didn&#8217;t touch my heart like it<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color:#000000;\"> is now. It is just frustrating and sad.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color:#000000;\">=============<\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color:#000080;\">Multiply your experience by a few billion, and think of what God sees<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> all the time, and how He feels. You love your sister and hurt for her<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> (and others) as you do only because Christ does. You came out of sin<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> to know him. Well, here it is. It is his love and his hurt that you<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> feel. Now that you feel that pain, too, your prayers and your life<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> will be more perfectly in fellowship with the will of God in Christ<\/span><\/em><br \/>\n<em><span style=\"color:#000080;\"> Jesus.&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; http:\/\/www.goingtojesus.com\/site\/php\/thoughts.php?tname=tfeintro I thank God for &#8220;Thoughts for the Day&#8221; such as this one, below. John, your gentle and wise counsel resonates so deeply in this. I cherish this advice. 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